How to negotiate with your unconscious mind - and win

unconscious mindAs you will have seen elsewhere on my site, hypnotherapy is very much about using your unconscious mind and the strength you have there. But sometimes it can feel as if your unconscious is working against you. You might be keen to quit smoking, or be friends with every spider you see (well, OK, that one could be a stretch, but you know what I’m getting at). But down in the back of your mind, where you may not even be aware of it, there could be a part of you that has other ideas. 

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Why do I do that? Understanding Habits

habits and why we do themHabits are things we do without really thinking about them – a kind of mental short cut that makes life more convenient by freeing up our attention for less routine activities. Stop reading for just a moment and think about how many things you do every day on ‘auto-pilot’.
Are you back now? Maybe you came up with driving, putting the same leg into your trousers first when you get dressed, where you put your keys when you come in, signing your name. I’m sure there were others. 

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8 simple mind hacks to boost your confidence

confidence boosting mind hacksMost of us experience situations where we’d like a bit more confidence, or maybe you feel your confidence is generally low. Either way, it is possible to give your confidence a boost by following these suggestions, and they’re easier than you’d think. It’s all about doing something rather than nothing, and feeling in control again. 

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Have you got a Halloween phobia?

Halloween PhobiasAs Halloween approaches, you may find certain fears being triggered in a way that is less fun than Halloween is supposed to be. Hypnotherapy can help get these fears under control. Here are some examples of unusual phobias which might be more noticeable at this time of year.

  

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Everything you need to know about sleeping well when quitting smoking

smokesleepInPixiov3Quitting smoking is one of the best decisions you can make, but some people find that, as their bodies adjust to being smoke-free, they don’t sleep as well as usual. In fact, a study reported in the Mirror [1] says that over two-thirds of those who went back to smoking after quitting successfully did so because of lack of sleep.

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How to reduce school-related anxieties

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I recently wrote about helping your child settle into school after the summer break but, however well prepared they are, sometimes children’s problems with school go on into the whole year instead of being a minor or temporary situation.
It’s natural for children - and teenagers - to feel anxious about returning to school after the summer. Just as they get used to freedom, they have to readjust to the school routine. It’s worst for children who are starting a new school or are stressed by school anyway, for example, if they have experienced bullying or suffer from learning difficulties and don;t have the right support. There are steps parents can take to reduce the problem and soothe their child’s anxiety.

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  1. Work toward your goals this summer
  2. A stress-free approach to returning to school
  3. Being close to nature is good for your mental health
  4. Self care for beginners
  5. Mood Food - How your diet can affect your anxiety
  6. How exercise can help your mood
  7. Keeping up with your resolutions
  8. Eight Top Ways to Cope with Holiday Stress
  9. What is Negative Thinking?
  10. What do you really know about positive thinking?
  11. Hypnosis in History: Dr John Elliotson
  12. Relax - Why breathing exercises work
  13. 5 fun facts about hypnosis
  14. 7 Tips to Beat the Social Anxiety Grinch
  15. Quit smoking timeline
  16. Hypnotherapy and Depression
  17. Are there guarantees for hypnotherapy?
  18. Hypnosis in History: Franz Anton Mesmer
  19. Get rid of negative thinking
  20. Happiness - can you make it happen?
  21. Does hypnotherapy work?
  22. Hypnotherapy and Blushing
  23. How to beat the winter blues
  24. Ten tips for new non smokers
  25. Mindfulness, and how to do it right
  26. Hypnotherapy and anger
  27. Can I get stuck in trance?
  28. Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD)
  29. Claustrophobia and hypnotherapy
  30. Hypnotherapy and gambling
  31. Hypnotherapy and young people
  32. Could hypnotherapy help with your Irritable Bowel Syndrome?
  33. How you should be using affirmations
  34. 5 ways hypnotherapy can help your relationship
  35. How to make this year's resolutions last
  36. How hypnotherapy changes our perceptions
  37. Hypnosis can help to organise your life
  38. How to manage social anxiety
  39. So you want to be normal?
  40. A few facts about hypnosis
  41. Improving your willpower
  42. Help with panic attacks
  43. Five things you need to know about IBS (Irritable Bowel Syndrome)
  44. Smoking - seven things you may not know
  45. Top tips for getting motivated
  46. Tips to get a good night's sleep
  47. Why do people worry about hypnosis?
  48. 4 reasons for lacking confidence - and what you can do about it!
  49. Ten things that every new non smoker should refuse to believe
  50. How to reduce anxiety and worry

Debbie Waller Hypnotherapy

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